Getting dressed for the day consists of many factors, but the important ones should be, how does this outfit make me feel, where am I going, whose my audience, and what message do I want to send? The answer is work- because its always work. The sidewalk is your runway- bold, kind, confident, and compassionate is the message.
I appreciate aesthetics. (In my eyes) great fit, comfort and body language are all elements of a stylish wardrobe. What I don’t think about; is this trendy, whos going to like/not like it and if I’ve already blessed your vibes with “said” piece. If it feels right, I’m puttin’ it on.
“Vibes”
Clothing and how a person wears it is just that. “Vibes”. Your clothing is the armor that activates your body language, exposing your superpowers as not the average women but- a power forward. It elongates the steps we take in our heels toward our goals and the way our hips roll when we stroll into boardrooms everywhere, taking our seat at the table.
There are rules to a garment obtaining real estate in my closet. Do you know the prices of real estate these days? NYC is where I reside. Space is a luxury. If you’re like me, everything around you should be beautiful. You should want to drink out of elegant glasses, eat off exquisite dishes, sleep on the best sheets and sit on vintage velvet leopard sofas (literally). This grind is real, and the comfort of you and your belongings must display as art.
There’s a running joke with my friends that visit me and the joke is, “who do you think you are?”
Why me of course!
Does it shock you when I open the door in a long red silk kimono, hair pulled back, candles lit, and tea in my Deshoulieres? If so, the shock should be less pungent when you see me at the grocery store in my sequined skirt, t-shirt, and heels. It’s intrinsic, pure and real.
It’s not for you, it’s for me!
What you put on the outside reflects and protects the inside. It is your armor! You may choose to tackle your day in a Hanes cotton T-shirt, others prefer to do it in a sequined T-shirt. No matter which style you choose, make sure to stay positive and get sh** done… …OKKKUUUUUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRR!